خالِطُوا النّاسَ مُخالَطَةً إنْ مِتُّمْ مَعَها بَکَوْا عَلَیکُم، وإنْ عِشْتُم حَنُّوا إلَیکُم. Relate with people in a manner that if you die they will cry upon you and if you be alive they will love you.
Nahj al-Balagha, wisdom 10
Amir al-Mu'minin Imam Ali (peace be upon him)Hadith